How Do You See Her

Today's talk will be centered on the "Woman" your wife (fiance) and this is coming to celebrate my crown, my wife as she marks another year. Happy Birthday Love.

My Wife

Today's words will speak directly to the guys, the husband of the woman. So guys how do you see her? I will share with you some things God thought me on how to see her the woman, my wife.

Now, let me say irrespective of whom you are, young or old, this is a word to you and you should take it as serious as it should be.

If you are a husband, you should be thoughtful of your wife. Treat her with honor, because she isn't as strong as you are, and she shares with you in the gift of life. Then nothing will stand in the way of your prayers. (1Pe 3:7 CEV)

1. Respect Her
It's so unfortunate that husbands today finds it so hard to respect their wives, they say "so why should I respect her, she should respect me, am I not her husband?" Sure you are her husband but don't forget that respect is reciprocal, what you give is what you get and to make the home habitable it's important you respect her, and more-so God want's you to respect her. This takes me to the next point 

2. Be Thoughtful of Her
A lot of time, because we are men and husbands we tend to take actions believing that we are in control, well let me say today that it's important that in any decision we take, we should consider the woman, see how it affects her, be careful not to hurt her, deal with her in knowledge, know that every action you take will always bounce back on her directly or indirectly, your decision should have  a "my wife" factor in it, from the least of decision of driving on a high speed which can claim your life to taking up responsibility which will affect your time with your wife.

3. Remember She's Not As Strong as You Are
Lot's of men out there feels if I can do it she should be able to do it, what man can do a woman can do better, please that doesn't give you the gut to over burden her, she cooks the food, dish the food, takes care of the baby, clean the house, wash the cloths, sweep and mop the floor, and then goes to work, comes back then sex time and this continues. You say "that's her responsibility", who says? Please learn to help her do all you could, don't forget she's weaker than you.

4. Want Quick Answer? She Can Make it Happen
One of the ways, you can quickly get those things you want from God is being at peace with your wife or woman, because as much as she's happy, your prayers cannot be hindered, and the only way you make her happy is when you respect her, treat her well, honour her, understand her, and helping her. If you do these things you are fine and things will work for you.

DECLARATION: Lord today, I receive the grace to respect, love, honor, have a thought of my wife (fiance), help me to always please her, let your love grow in me so I can love her the more, forgive me of every ways I have disappointed you God in the ways I have dealt with my wife (fiance) wrongly, thank you because from today my prayers will never again be hindered as I cooperate with her, In Jesus name. Amen.

As you've prayed, God has answered, don't forget what we talked about, you will flourish.

Thank you for reading, your comments mean so much to me.

Regards.